Sunday, May 14, 2006

Are my expectations too high?

If someone agrees to be around for dinner. And leaves with a "If you haven't heard from me by 6pm call" and I call at 6:20 and get told "I'll be there in a bit I'm leaving." And 7:20 arrives, and they're still not there. So I call, and you're not particularly suprised to find they haven't actually left yet. Am I wrong to be angry? Or feel like I'm not being respected? Am I just overreacting because I should have eaten dinner a while ago and I'm hungry and cranky?

I don't think so. I think if a person agrees to something they should carry it through. I expect I was just raised with higer standards of task completion, and honesty than most though.

5 Comments:

At 5/14/2006 8:49 PM, Anonymous Tiny said...

No. I'd be pissed too. Common courtsey is very lacking these days.

 
At 5/15/2006 8:21 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

pissed! Unless they have an aunt in the hospital or a baby puking its guts out or something, you are justified in being miffed, pissed, indignant, offended, vexed, or otherwise angry.
- Chilly

 
At 5/15/2006 10:34 AM, Blogger Padded Room Occupant said...

You have every right to be pissed off. You weren't put on this earth to be a doormat!

 
At 5/16/2006 5:55 PM, Anonymous KORfan said...

Feel free to be upset.

 
At 5/17/2006 10:06 PM, Blogger betsyl said...

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